Balance Being Doing and Living

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Balance is what we all need, what most seek, and more argue against not just work-life balance, I mean being and doing balance,  a balance between making it happen and letting it happen some argue, you must work hard and take action to achieve anything in life and they are right in a way. 

Action is needed and hard work does have its place. If you wish to succeed in accomplishing things in this world. However, the sacrifice should never be your LIFE. 

Your life quality your presence your happiness. Overworking leads to anxieties and stress, which usually leads to poor decisions making, quality work is achieved when you are present, when you love what you do, you can still work hard, but your hard work should come from a state of wanting to do the work not from having to do it because you have so much on your plate, each action you perform should be conscious and present. If you have too much on your plate, you are always thinking about another task while performing the current one, nothing is going to be done to the best of your ability it is far better to complete one job fully, complete and perfectly than 100 unfinished and incomplete. 

In every moment we should ask ourselves, what is really important, what is really important today? Is it necessary to rush out of the house to get to work? Must I be in the office, in my head while your kids talk to you? unconsciously ignoring them completely. What if you lost my love ones today, can you honestly say you were committed and present to those that really mattered to you. 

One of the most powerful principles of painting life perspective is to start the day picturing yourself at your own funeral. Now ask yourself if I die today. Did I live how I wanted to live or was I like most just obsessed with getting things done, can I do better starting right now, picturing yourself at your funeral, is powerful because it helps you understand that material things and chasing the big money isn't important. 

You can't take money with you, you cant take the fancy car with you and your loved ones will never care about what you did in the office, they will only care about WHO you were and HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL this does not mean, you go out and quit your job, and live in a cave with your family. You can still thrive in business and you can still make huge sums of money the point here is to always be mindful of what is the most important in your life. 

There will always be things that need to get done and always things that remain undone, they are not important, then your happiness now, they are not more important than THIS MOMENT, they are not more important than those you love, just ask anyone that has lost a loved one suddenly,

 Don't wait until its too late to start living don't wait until its too late to understand what's really important in your life. Don't wait until its too late to be happy be light-hearted, be joyful. Don't take life too seriously it is meant to be enjoyed no matter what you do.

For many life has come a competition of being better, or having more than the next family member, like it said keeping up with the Jones is the majority of the way our world lives. if we have less materially speaking, we feel lifeless of a human if we have more our egos explode, this is not what life is about. If you are chasing things, you will never be happy and always be chasing that you will die, and no one will care because your soul dies long ego, there is nothing wrong with money or being extremely wealthy, money is great, when placed in the right hands, there are so many great people on earth who do great things with their wealth.

People who are obsessed with money, obsessed with material things, and obsessed with being better than their friends and family. I am talking about those who measure success by one's possessions. If you think money is more important things on earth try counting your money while holding your breath money is not the answer. LIVING FULLY now is your answer, Love is the answer, Kindness is the answer. Compassion is the answer. Happiness is the answer 

So balance what is really important to your life, what creates value, what makes you feel at peace. Life is too short to wonder about things that are not important. Life is too short to worry about who said what to you, Life is too short to have stress or worry. Start focusing on what is good for you and all will balance.










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