Difficult Choices

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 When going through life,  it is like the waves in the ocean that come and go.


Sometimes when the waves are smooth life is smooth, and sometimes when the waves are rough then life is rough. It's like the saying goes "for every positive, there must be a negative". Sometimes there is more negative than positive. Then you ask yourself, what choices had led you to this conclusion and where the choices made right?

There is no right and wrong to the life we lead, we just need to follow... Recently I have been facing lots of different kinds of emotions and misbalance, I keep asking myself why me?? but it's actual life and the obstacles we face. Everyone has so many different stories when it comes to this. 


How do you know you have made the right to wrong decision? I have so much that I want to accomplish and I don't even know when or where I should begin... or whether the choices I choose will be right or am I in the right space. 


Also sometimes life scares you and the people that enter your life that can never understand what you want or what you are feeling.  sometimes I feel like I am all alone standing on the beach looking to my left then to my right .. asking myself which is the right way? and if I go straight then I will drown... (Life)


Agggrrrrr, you know sometimes, people say when your times are right, or when you are in the right place at the right times... Good things would happen, I feel I need that now ( SMILE)  we can never predict the future but have a list of wants and needs...  so it's the difficult choices we make that lead us to think otherwise. 


Recently, I have been journaling into my laptop, my thoughts flow like the lake of water nonstop, I do know it is very healthy to do that... it's my own personal life and thoughts between me and my laptop. Something that I have learned,  as the journaling begun is that you learn to read the crap or not that you type.. and you learn to know yourself... but most importantly you learn how to define situations.


I had made a choice 2 years ago to leave the city I lived in, leave the job, leave the radio life, and change my car in 1 year... shewww it was a lot... however 2 years down the line and I feel I have sacrificed so much and now it feels in vain..  am I thinking too much at this point of my life.. or is this normal?


Well, I tell you there is no looking back... I laid my bed and now got to lie on it... until I change the mattress ...haha  But on a serious note, all we can do is ride with the waves.  With the life we lead, Covid 19 around, family and friends passing on..  should we complain? but we should also not sacrifice our happiness at the same time. 


So let us try and be grateful for all that we have,  be strong with everything we face, and no matter what comes our way...  try to face it head-on...  cause life is always going to through you crap people and situation its how you deal with it... 


Make choices that suit you and not anyone else, do not allow anyone to control you 

 




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